After reading an article by Aja Dorsey Jackson on Black and Married with Kids.com titled, Is Anyone Advising the Men: Why is All the Relationship Advice Directed at Women?…I kinda laughed, and said yeah, Why?
Is it a big market, meaning when it comes to Love and Relationships, do women tend to buy the How to be a better Spouse/Partner Books, the Relationship NoNo’s Book or the Why are you Still single Book more than men? It would appear women did because of the countless copies out there. or Is it that men are not that inquisitive, especially when it comes to inquiring about the “How to Be’s” or relationship instructions of Things to do and don’t do.
There is a question at the end of the article that asks if it’s natural that women feel liable for a relationship’s success…I have heard women say that maybe if they did something different they would still be with him or they begin to think something is wrong with them if the relationship is not going well, but I can’t say that it’s in a woman’s nature to feel like the relationship’s success is hers to own, men have concerns and hopes of Love and not wanting to be alone, so they too can possess this natural quality…but I am guilty of feeling liable, even when I wanted to say It Ain’t my Fault (and it really wasn’t) as well as reading some of these Books. I know that’s not a bad thing…you just have to know and understand that when two people are in a meaningful relationship, the success of that relationship becomes second nature to both.