You know that saying, “if you want something done, then do it yourself”. Well sometimes that may be okay, but when you’re building a relationship is that a good motto to have? Think about it, when you ask your significant other to do something, (I’m not talking about something that is urgent) and it seems like they are taking their time, do you decide to DIY? I have. The times I have, has caused him to feel like I didn’t trust him to handle that situation. This wasn’t the case at all, it just wasn’t done when I wanted it done…so to help keep the peace try stepping back and allow the task (whatever it may be) to be done…though this act of patience may be challenging, this could prevent turning a little situation into a bigger situation.
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